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Good Morning Paragraphs for Him

Relationship Rules
31 Jul 2024
8 min read

If you’re in a relationship, you have one of three situations with your guy:

  • You are dating exclusively but live apart in the same town
  • You are living together
  • You are living apart in different places

Whichever is your situation, how often have you sent a good morning message to him? If you live together, chances are you say good morning to him and probably even give him a kiss and a hug before you both leave for your day ahead. If you live apart, you might even have a morning phone call before heading out. These are pretty common.

But what about changing things up and doing the uncommon? How about some good morning messages given in unique and creative ways?

Related reading: 26 Ideas to Spend a Morning Date

4 Reasons Why Good Morning Paragraphs/Messages Are Important

Abraham Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs is well-known. It’s often shown as a pyramid. At the bottom of this pyramid are the most basic needs moving on up to self-actualization at the top. The point is that no one can move up on the hierarchy until the level below has been satisfied. The bottom two levels are physical needs (shelter, food, etc.). Next is safety and security. The third level up is love and a sense of belonging. And here is where these small gestures of affection come into play. They become the “glue” that holds a relationship together over the long haul and allows someone to move on up to the next level – self-esteem. Let’s unpack the reasons why good morning paragraphs for him contribute to a stronger relationship.

  1. Sometimes a few words can speak volumes. A simple “You’re the best thing that ever happened to me” is all it takes to make his day brighter all the way around.
  2. A 2013 survey of over 5,000 participants found that small acts of love were highly valued – more than the occasional big gestures. Just saying, “I love you” was found to bring couples closer together.
  3. There is a mental health benefit of giving and receiving. Giving and receiving reassurance of love on a daily basis improves self-esteem, feelings of optimism, and a general sense of well-being. This, according to a summary of empirical research reported in 2020.
  4. Shar’ron Mason, licensed marriage and family therapist, has this to say about the wonderful way messages to a partner can impact them.

“Verbal affirmations of gratitude, celebration, and encouragement are also ways to show your partner you’re rooting for them, supporting them, and want to see them succeed…Sending an encouraging message to your partner who may need a little extra support can be helpful and meaningful…Verbal affirmations of gratitude, celebration, and encouragement are also ways to show your partner you’re rooting for them, supporting them, and want to see them succeed…Sending an encouraging message to your partner who may need a little extra support can be helpful and meaningful…Writing a gratitude letter or getting them a card on any given day may also brighten their day and bring you together.”

3 Ways to Give a Good Morning Paragraph or Message

First, let’s clarify what is meant by a good morning paragraph. A paragraph can be one sentence or several sentences long. And there will be times when a single sentence can capture all that you want to say – “You give me all the happiness I will ever need.” “You’re the most amazing man I’ve ever known.”

At other times, you will want a good morning paragraph that gives more detail. “Thank you for being the one constant in the ups and downs of my crazy world. You love me through all of my successes and failures, in spite of all my faults, and keep me grounded through this journey called life. You are an amazing man, and I am the luckiest person alive.”

Either one of these would make a perfect good morning paragraph.

Now, onto delivery. This will depend on your physical status with your guy.

1. If You Are Living with Your Guy

If this is the case, you have all sorts of opportunities to throw out those good morning paragraphs. Here are some of those options:

  • If you get up before he does, put a positive note on the bathroom mirror. This can be done via post-it notes or even written in lipstick or toothpaste. “You are my morning sun” is a good example.
  • You can also put little notes where he will find them during the day, at work, or at school. “Hope you have an amazing day – a day filled with as much joy as you give to me.”
  • You can text him and send encouragement good morning words if you know he is going to have a challenging day ahead. Setting a positive tone for his day can make a big difference. “You got this, babe. I’m sending happy thoughts all day to the most wonderful person I know.”
  • Send him an email early in the day. “Hope your day is all you want it to be. I will have an incredible day being forever grateful that you are in my life. You bring so much joy into my every waking moment.”
  • If he is a morning person, you may have to use the very early morning hours to get your good morning paragraph crafted and positioned – do it occasionally. It will drive home the point that he is that important to you.

2. If You are Living Apart But in the Same Locale

You can really have some fun in this situation, if you know when he will be asleep, gone to work or school, or for any other reason.

Depending on the weather conditions and his living environment (house, condo, apartment, dorm room, etc., here are some options sweet, cute, encouraging, or humorous good morning paragraph messages.

  • Get up early and build a snowman outside his place with a sign around its neck. “Wishing you a day as wonderful as you are,” or “Just a little reminder that you bring me so much happiness and make all the difference in my life,” or “Wishing you a fantastic day ahead, you amazing person – Love you so much!”
  • Slip a note under his door. “As the sun rises, I am reminded how your smile lights up my world just as much. Hope your day is filled with sunshine and knowing how much you mean to me.” or “Good morning sweetheart. Wishing you a day with only good things. It is already filled with love from me.”
  • Find a gratitude good morning card that says just what you want to say to express your gratitude for his just being in your life and loving you. Slip it under his door or put it on his car windshield.
  • Once you know he is asleep for the night, send a text – list all the good qualities that make you love him so much. “Good morning sweetheart. Here is a feel-appreciated good morning message, so you know why I love you so much. You pick me up when I fall; you support all of my crazy endeavors; you bring me my fav candy when I’m down; and you kiss my nose just right!”
  • Send a late-night email that he’ll get when he checks. “I hope you have a morning filled with great things. And know that it is filled with love from me your entire day.”

3. If You Are Living Apart in Different Locales

This will be a bit more challenging because you are more limited by the ways in which you can leave good morning paragraphs and other messages. Of course, you can always text something like, “Good morning my love. Rise and shine and remember your day is filled with love from me. Have an awesome day. I love you.”

But what else can you do? Here are a few ideas:

  • Send him a voicemail in the middle of the night so he’ll get it when he wakes up and checks his phone. “Good morning my love. I want you to have a day filled with only amazing things. With every passing day, my love for you grows. You are the prince charming I always dreamed of.
  • Be sure to get info on his morning routine. What time does he get up? What does he do to get ready in sequence? Arrange to have his favorite breakfast delivered to his door. And with it, of course, one of those smile good morning paragraphs. “Good morning my love. As the world awakens, of course, you are on my mind, even before my coffee.”
  • What social media accounts does he have? Does he check them in the morning? You could leave a different message on each one, or, better, leave just one a day on a single platform and get him searching for your message each morning. Here are a couple of examples.”Good morning my love. In my world, morning brings another wonderful day of loving you. I hope today is everything you hope for.””Good morning my love. I just want you to know what a wonderful man you are and how your presence in my life completes me.””Good morning my love. As the morning sun peeks up on the horizon, all I can think about is how much sunshine you bring me. Your presence in my life makes even a rainy day sunny.”
Good morning paragraphs for him: Top examples

Use Variety in the Good Morning Paragraphs

There are all types of good morning messages you can send, so let’s unpack some examples of these varieties.

Romantic Good Morning Paragraphs

Most of the examples above are romantic morning messages. Here are a few more:

  • Good morning my love. I have waited for you all my life. Now that you are in it, I am a blank canvas waiting for you to paint my world with happiness.
  • The morning dew is still fresh on the grass – as fresh as my love is for you with each passing moment. Have an amazing, my sweetheart.

Sweet Good Morning Paragraph Messages

Your goal here is to tell him how much he means to you without getting all “gushy” with the romantic stuff. And you want to let your own sweetness come through. These are affection good morning shorties with a solid message of love, caring, and the impact he has made on your life.

  • You are not just my forever love; you are my best friend. So, I guess you are my BFF+.
  • Your smile is the only sunshine I need, so this rainy day is still an amazing morning.
  • You make me want to be the very best that I can be – I’m sending you a sweet kiss through cyberspace this morning until I can plant a real one on you.

Encouraging Messages for a Challenging Day

When you know he is facing a challenging day – maybe exams, a job interview, or a project deadline he is worried about, your messages should show support, encouragement, and belief in him.

  • Rise and shine, my dearest. Here’s to a very joyous good morning and a successful day. You’ve got this. I’ll be sending you great vibes for a fantastic day filled with nothing but the best. I love you!
  • Wanted to be the first to tell you what an awesome guy I have fallen so in love with. I know your day will be as amazing as you are. You are loved beyond words.
  • I don’t hope you will have a wonderful day. I know you’ll have a day filled with success because, like Midas, everything you touch “turns to gold.” I’m sending you love vibes all day.

Cute Good Morning Paragraphs

Put a little humor into cute paragraphs, and you’ll have him chuckling and thinking of you throughout the day as he remembers what you said.

  • Your love fills me up better than my coffee cup.
  • Didn’t get enough sleep last night because you were rummaging around in my head. Could you rummage a bit more quietly? Or better yet, could you just come over and rummage in my bed instead of my head?
  • Hope your day is as fabulous as that Rocky Road ice cream you put in my freezer. Love it and you too! (PS – it’s almost gone. Better get over here early)
  • Hope you have a wonderful day – as wonderful as you made my night last night. If your day is as good as that, it won’t be wonderful – it will be fabulous!

Need More Ideas and Inspiration?

Not all of us find writing words of love, admiration, romance, affection, and cuteness to the man we adore. “Have an amazing day – I love you” is just kinda dull and boring. To get your brain juices flowing, try this great resource. And for even more, go here.

Be random, be spontaneous, and get in a good variety – you’ll make his day.

Love&Sex Expert
Cherie Hamilton

I’ve always been inspired by women who are outgoing, very sure of themselves, and not afraid to be who they were, including their sex lives. Under their tutelage, I gradually shed my old self, hung out and socialized with them, and, over time, became the empowered, self-confident, and sexual woman I am today. Happy to share my insights with other women today!

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