You believe every match has to know and see what you are up to. You send them your breakfast, your plant, your cat, a stranger on a bench in sepia, your friend Carl, the Sunset from a wrong angle, a bunch of pigeons, random kids playing, and every selfie you take in the elevator mirror. It’s great that you're an open book, but maybe try to keep a little mystery. And honestly, if you play it cool, they may meet Carl in person.