Unlocking Sexual Energy – A How-To Guide

Intimacy & Sex
15 Aug 2023
9 min read
Unlock Sexual Energy to Succeed - A Quick How-To Guide

Do you know you can use your sexual energy to succeed in different areas of your life? You can unlock your creativity, improve your productivity, heal your soul and body, and take your sex life to a new level with sexual transmutation and ancient tantric practices.

Let’s dive into the topic and explore the incredible power of sexual energy.

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What Is Sexual Energy?

The term “sexual energy” can be defined as the energy associated with sexual urges.

When you get sexually aroused, your body and mind react at so many levels:

  • Your heart starts beating faster
  • Your breath gets heavier
  • You get a boost of estrogen and testosterone

Naturally, all these changes release the energy in your body, so it’s called “sexual energy”.

Related reading: The Making of a Sexual Goddess

The Power of Sacral Chakra

This chakra rules our emotions, sexuality, creativity, and sensuality. Basically, it bridges our sexual energy with our capability to create. When this chakra gets blocked and unbalanced, we experience difficulties dealing with our feelings or working on creative projects.

5 Signs You Are Suppressing Your Sexual Energy

The biggest problem of modern people is that we are disconnected from our inner selves:

  • We are too attached to our gadgets and overexposed to different types of content
  • We compare ourselves to others and overthink every little problem
  • We are too dependable on public opinion and try too hard to live by the norms set

If you want to become a happier and more successful person, you should change your way of living and reconnect to your authentic self. Stop doing this and not make mistakes that block sexual energy.

1. Not Practicing Self-Love

Every person has their strengths and flaws. No one is perfect. That’s why you should love yourself the way you are and accept all your traits positively, whether they are good or bad.

Be aware that negative self-talk destroys your personality and interferes with your sexual energy. To unlock new possibilities, you should be in harmony with yourself.

Related reading: How To Maintain Your Individuality While In a Relationship

2. Being Overly Attached to the Past

If you feel nostalgic about the “old good days” from time to time, it’s totally normal. But if you literally live in the past and can’t enjoy your present, it’s a huge problem that you should fix it immediately.

The energy is constantly circulating in your body. If you are too attached to the past, your energy gets stagnant. Let the past events go, say goodbye to the people from your past, and concentrate on the present – it will let new physical energy flow into your body.

3. Staying in Touch with Negative People

Have you noticed that you always feel drained after communicating with one of your friends, colleagues, or relatives? The chances are you are dealing with energetic vampires. The longer you stay in touch with these people, the more sexual energy you lose.

Your surrounding defines levels of your sexual and creative energy and your success in general. So if you want a better life, you must be prepared to change your circle. Once you meet people with strong sexual energy, you will feel a boost of your own sexual energy.

4. Choose Negativity Over Positivity

Life has its ups and downs, and you can’t change it. But you can choose how to react: focus on the bad events or try to see something good in whatever situation.

A negative state of mind is associated with lower energies. The more negative thoughts you have in your head, the less effective sexual energy practices will be. You need to defeat your anxiety before you move to sexual transmutation practices.

5. Not Having a Clear Idea of Your Sexuality

Do you explore your sexuality? What is your true desire? Think about the things that turn you on and focus on your feelings. Don’t feel ashamed to have erotic fantasies and say “yes” to your sexual desire. Your sexuality is a part of your authentic self, so you should embrace it rather than suppress it.

How to transmute sexual energy

What Is Sexual Transmutation?

Energy transmutation is the process of converting one form of energy into another – in our case, transforming sexual energy into other energies (mental energy, spiritual energy, creativity, etc.)

If you haven’t skipped your physics classes at school, you know that energy is neither created nor destroyed but can be transmuted into a new form. For instance, lightning is one of the most famous examples of transmutation: electrical energy is transformed into light, heat, and sound energy.

What do you need to start practicing sexual transmutation? Firstly, you should be aware of your sexual energy. Secondly, you should know how you can transform it and in which form. And lastly, you should have a specific goal and shift your mental focus to achieving it.

7 Ways to Transmute Sexual Energy

You’ve just figured out how to stop blocking your sexual energy. Now it makes sense to talk about sexual transmutation practices in more detail.

1. Start Journaling

Do you already have a gratitude journal or a dream journal? Great! You already know what journaling is all about. Now you need to start a new journal to write about your passions, desires, and sexual experiences. It will take you just a couple of minutes but will greatly benefit you in the long run. By putting your thoughts on paper, you will build awareness of your sexuality as well as your wants and needs.

2. Practice Sexual Meditation

Sexual meditation is a powerful tool of energy transmutation, and you can use it in a few ways depending on your skills and your final goal:

  • You can listen to a guided meditation while masturbating. Focus on your deepest feelings and imagine how sexual energy spreads throughout your body.
  • Or you can meditate in an ordinary way without having sex or touching your body. Just try to get in touch with your inner self and use the power of your mind to get your sexual energy moving.

3. Enjoy Tantric Sex

Have you heard a lot about tantric sex but have never tried it? It’s time to take advantage of this ancient tantric practice and get a boost of creative energy.

Tantra teaches us that sex is a sensual activity that strengthens relationships rather than an instrument for reaching orgasm. So learn the basics and get prepared for the act. Set up a romantic space: light the candles, put new sheets on, and spray essential oils. Invite your partner to join you in a highly spiritual experience. Learn to control your body and channel sexual energy to higher energy centers.

Note that there are countless other references (other than tantric practices) for those who want to reveal their hidden sexual power. So if you don’t want to try tantric sex, you can skip this step altogether.

4. Join an Esoteric Group

Do you need someone to guide you in the world of sexual transmutation? There are many esoteric groups out there that you can join. Most of them have a yogic philosophy – they believe that our sex energy is dormant until fully awakened in its highest and purest form.

These groups typically practice “sex magick” (the concept connected to psychologist Carl Jung’s idea of sexual alchemy). They will teach you to use the raw energy from your libido, converting it into golden creativity.

Related reading: Sex Magick – Getting All That You Want

5. Practice Sexual Abstinence

Sexual energy doesn’t always involve sexual activity. Sometimes you need to say “no” to excessive indulgence and abstain for a while to feel pure sexual energy circulating in your body. Many people say they can have orgasmic rushes by simply observing their feelings rather than using physical stimulation.

Well, if you and your partner can’t imagine your life without sex, you can practice sexual transmutation in another way: you can have sex without reaching orgasm. This experience will challenge your mind and physical body – you can simply observe your partner’s feelings instead of focusing on the climax.

6. Change Your Mindset

“In some communities, certain forms of sexual expression may be considered normal or typical, while in other societies, the same behavior may be perceived and categorized as abnormal.”

Mauricio P. Yabar, therapist

In many cultures, sex is still considered taboo, and sexual activity is considered a sin. It’s one of the common reasons men and women deal with sexuality and sexual expression issues.

Probably you were raised in a family where having sex was considered a “bad behavior”. You are an adult now and understand that all living creatures (animals and humans alike) have sex; it’s a natural thing. But the chances are you unconsciously suppress your sexual energies.

Did your mom tell you that only nymphomaniacs and sluts have a high sex drive? Obviously, it’s not true. Your sexual drive doesn’t define you as a person, so you should never be ashamed of it.

From now, you should change your mindset. Follow the Kabbalah philosophy that sees sexual desire as the “deepest spiritual expression”. Once you tweak your mindset, you will make your sexual transmutation practices twice more effective.

7. Hire a Sex Coach

Do you feel like you need expert help to start practicing sex transmutation? Consider hiring a professional to help you find your internal power and turn your biological urge into sexual energy in its highest form.

The coach will educate you on the topic and explain how ancient cultures defined sexual energy and consciousness. In a few sessions, you will know how to use sexual energy to achieve your personal goals.

How to turn sexual desire into creative energy

5 Reasons for Harnessing Sexual Energy

Are you hesitant about whether you should start practicing sexual transmutation? Think about how it will change your life for the better:

  1. Get more inspiration and creative energy to complete a project you are working on (write a book, create a new design for your website, renovate your home, etc.)
  2. The physical expression of your sexual energy will spice up your sex life and strengthen your relationship on a spiritual level.
  3. Boost your motivation when working on achieving personal and professional goals.
  4. Unlock your hidden powers to master new skills, foster any relationship you want and uncover talents.
  5. Achieve a state of mental clarity in your every day life to become your best self.

Some people suffer from intense desire – their consciousness is flooded with erotic fantasies they can hardly control. They want to fulfill their dreams even if they are associated with hurting others or risk imprisonment. It’s crucially important for these people to understand the driving force of their desire and practice sexual transmutation to redirect the body’s energy in the right direction.

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Sexual Transmutation Leads to a More Fulfilling Daily Life

Human beings are sexually active creatures. Sexual energy is a part of who we are, and we shouldn’t deny it.

Most people wrongly believe that sexual energy is “just sex”, but it’s much more than that. Sexual energy is a life force that connects the human soul with the universe.

The awareness of sacral energy and sexual transmutation may take your life from the most basic level to a higher one. Sexual energy is a much more realistic thing than one may think! If you have enough will and are ready for a transformation, you will benefit immensely.

Love&Sex Expert
Cherie Hamilton
I’ve always been inspired by women who are outgoing, very sure of themselves, and not afraid to be who they were, including their sex lives. Under their tutelage, I gradually shed my old self, hung out and socialized with them, and, over time, became the empowered, self-confident, and sexual woman I am today. Happy to share my insights with other women today!

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